I was recently in an un-named location, waiting. I'd neglected to bring anything to read. So I eavesdropped shamelessly on two women nearby, who were chatting about loans they knew about in their social circle. On the observation front: wow, thatsa lotta personal loans flying around, and do their buddies sure tell who lent who money and whether they paid it back or not.
On the lesson front, I have this:
It's fine to lend money to a woman with a stripper name. But not it if she has a boyfriend named Dwayne or Travis.